Book Summary and Reviews of Rules of Civility by Amor Towles

Rules of Civility by Amor Towles

Rules of Civility

A Novel

by Amor Towles

  • Critics' Consensus (0):
  • Readers' Rating (39):
  • Published:
  • Jul 2011, 352 pages
  • Rate this book

About this book

Book Summary

Set in New York City in 1938, Rules of Civility tells the story of a watershed year in the life of an uncompromising twenty-five-year-old named Katey Kontent. Armed with little more than a formidable intellect, a bracing wit, and her own brand of cool nerve, Katey embarks on a journey from a Wall Street secretarial pool through the upper echelons of New York society in search of a brighter future.

The story opens on New Year's Eve in a Greenwich Village jazz bar, where Katey and her boardinghouse roommate Eve happen to meet Tinker Grey, a handsome banker with royal blue eyes and a ready smile. This chance encounter and its startling consequences cast Katey off her current course, but end up providing her unexpected access to the rarified offices of Conde Nast and a glittering new social circle. Befriended in turn by a shy, principled multimillionaire, an Upper East Side ne'er-do-well, and a single-minded widow who is ahead of her times, Katey has the chance to experience first hand the poise secured by wealth and station, but also the aspirations, envy, disloyalty, and desires that reside just below the surface. Even as she waits for circumstances to bring Tinker back into her orbit, she will learn how individual choices become the means by which life crystallizes loss.

Elegant and captivating, Rules of Civility turns a Jamesian eye on how spur of the moment decisions define life for decades to come. A love letter to a great American city at the end of the Depression, readers will quickly fall under its spell of crisp writing, sparkling atmosphere and breathtaking revelations, as Towles evokes the ghosts of Fitzgerald, Capote, and McCarthy.

Please be aware that this discussion may contain spoilers!

See what our members are saying about this book in our Community Forum.

What would your Desert Island Reads be, and why? (In the context of the novel, this is a book that has meant something special to you at a particular time in your life.)
I have really enjoyed books by Amor Towles - A Gentleman in Moscow, Rules of Civility, and The Lincoln Highway.
-Michele_P1


Which famous figure should write an autobiography or memoir (who hasn’t already published one)?
Nan, I agree Amor Towles would be interesting. I enjoyed the three books you mentioned especially Rules of Civility.
-Lynne_G

Membership Advantages
  • Reviews
  • "Beyond the Book" articles
  • Free books to read and review (US only)
  • Find books by time period, setting & theme
  • Read-alike suggestions by book and author
  • Book club discussions
  • and much more!
  • Just $60 for 12 months or $20 for 3 months.
  • More about membership!

Reviews

Media Reviews

"Starred Review. [A] smashing debut... remarkable for its strong narrative, original characters and a voice influenced by Fitzgerald and Capote, but clearly true to itself." - Publishers Weekly

"An elegant, pithy performance by a first-time novelist who couldn't seem more familiar with his characters or territory." - Kirkus Reviews

"A romantic look at the difficulties of being a New Yorker. But not, as the publisher suggests, reminiscent of Fitzgerald... This novel would, however, make a nice (contemporary) companion to novels like The Great Gatsby and is thusly recommended." - Library Journal

"[T]he best feature of Rules of Civility is its fast pacing and irresistible momentum. The language is snappy, too, full of period idiom and witty one-liners." - The Telegraph (UK)

"This is a flesh-and-blood tale you believe in, with fabulous period detail. It's all too rare to find a fun, glamorous, semi-literary tale to get lost in." - The Observer (UK)

This information about Rules of Civility was first featured in "The BookBrowse Review" - BookBrowse's membership magazine, and in our weekly "Publishing This Week" newsletter. Publication information is for the USA, and (unless stated otherwise) represents the first print edition. The reviews are necessarily limited to those that were available to us ahead of publication. If you are the publisher or author and feel that they do not properly reflect the range of media opinion now available, send us a message with the mainstream reviews that you would like to see added.

Any "Author Information" displayed below reflects the author's biography at the time this particular book was published.

Reader Reviews

Write your own reviewwrite your own review

Cathryn_Conroy

A Charming and Imaginative Novel: The Magic of This Book Is in the Remarkable Characters
Amor Towles is one of my favorite authors, and it was a delight after 12 years to reread this, his first novel, for my book club. While the plot is compelling, the magic of the book is in the enthralling characters.

The story takes place over one year—1938—opening on New Year's Eve, December 31, 1937 when best friends Katey Kontent (pronounced like the lovely feeling of contentedness) and Evelyn Ross pool their pennies and go to a downtrodden jazz club in Greenwich Village to ring in the new year. There they meet the handsome, rich banker Theodore "Tinker" Grey, who will forever change their lives. Both Katey and Eve are savvy, sassy, and sexy—but on Katey it comes off as smart and sophisticated and on Eve as reckless and brash. Meanwhile, Tinker is harboring a dark secret, one that he only reveals when he's caught.

The three become inseparable pals, doing everything together until one fateful night when they are in a car crash. Guilt and honor combine, and Tinker takes care of the injured Eve until they suddenly become a couple, leaving Katey as a third wheel. But don't count her out just yet. Ambitious Katey is intelligent, resourceful, and willing to take a chance, making 1938 a very good year for her as this poor girl travels in high society and holds her own among the rich and famous.

The prologue takes place in 1966 when a married Katey is at the Museum of Modern Art attending a gala opening of photographic portraits that were taken in the late 1930s on the New York City subways. She is accompanied by her unnamed husband. The prologue gives away some significant plot developments yet to come, but it is done in such a way that makes the book that much more enticing to read.

Masterfully written with remarkable characters, delightful dialogue, and an endearing plot, this charming and imaginative novel is a literary gift.

Bonus No. 1: The title of the book comes from a school writing exercise penned by a young George Washington titled "Rules of Civility & Decent Behaviour in Company and Conversation." The entire document is printed in the appendix. In my opinion, the first and the last rules are bookends for this novel.

Bonus No. 2: Eve's story continues in Amor Towles's latest book of short stories and one novella: "Table for Two: Fictions."

Membership Advantages
  • Reviews
  • "Beyond the Book" articles
  • Free books to read and review (US only)
  • Find books by time period, setting & theme
  • Read-alike suggestions by book and author
  • Book club discussions
  • and much more!
  • Just $60 for 12 months or $20 for 3 months.
  • More about membership!

Author Information

Amor Towles Author Biography

Amor Towles is the author of the New York Times bestsellers The Lincoln Highway, A Gentleman in Moscow, and Rules of Civility. His novels have collectively sold millions of copies and have been translated into more than thirty-five languages. Towles lives in Manhattan with his wife and two children.

Link to Amor Towles's Website

Name Pronunciation
Amor Towles: A-more tolls (first syllable of first name rhymes with hay)

Other books by Amor Towles at BookBrowse
  • The Lincoln Highway jacket
  • Table for Two jacket
  • A Gentleman in Moscow jacket
Membership Advantages
  • Reviews
  • "Beyond the Book" articles
  • Free books to read and review (US only)
  • Find books by time period, setting & theme
  • Read-alike suggestions by book and author
  • Book club discussions
  • and much more!
  • Just $60 for 12 months or $20 for 3 months.
  • More about membership!

Read-Alikes

Read-Alikes Full readalike results are for members only

If you liked Rules of Civility, try these:

  • Blue Ruin jacket

    Blue Ruin

    by Hari Kunzru

    Published 2025

    About this book

    From one of the sharpest voices in fiction today, a profound and enthralling novel about beauty and power, capital, art and those who devote their lives to creating it

  • Stories from the Tenants Downstairs jacket

    Stories from the Tenants Downstairs

    by Sidik Fofana

    Published 2023

    About this book

    Set in a Harlem high rise, a stunning debut about a tight-knit cast of characters grappling with their own personal challenges while the forces of gentrification threaten to upend life as they know it.

  • An Olive Grove in Ends jacket

    An Olive Grove in Ends

    by Moses McKenzie

    Published 2023

    About this book

    An electrifying debut about a young man faced with a fraught decision: escape a dangerous past alone, or brave his old life and keep the woman he loves.

We have 10 read-alikes for Rules of Civility, but non-members are limited to three results. Join free to see the complete list of recommendations.
Search read-alikes
How we choose read-alikes

More Literary Fiction

Browse all Literary Fiction books

Membership Advantages
  • Reviews
  • "Beyond the Book" articles
  • Free books to read and review (US only)
  • Find books by time period, setting & theme
  • Read-alike suggestions by book and author
  • Book club discussions
  • and much more!
  • Just $60 for 12 months or $20 for 3 months.
  • More about membership!

BookBrowse Book Club

Book Jacket
When No One Else Will
by Amanda Skenandore
1940s Chicago nurse risks everything at an illegal women’s clinic during a high-profile trial of courage and sisterhood.

Members Recommend

  • Book Jacket
    Dangerous, Dirty, Violent, and Young
    by Zayd Ayers Dohrn
    Son of Weather Underground radicals recounts life on the run and decades of revolutionary struggle.
  • Book Jacket
    The Jellyfish Problem
    by Tessa Yang
    A marine biologist rescues a Maine island menaced by a giant glowing jellyfish in this inventive debut.
  • Book Jacket
    Look What You Made Me Do
    by John Lanchester
    A propulsive tale of intergenerational tension and revenge from the Booker Prize nominee.
Who Said...

What really knocks me out is a book that, when you're all done reading, you wish the author that wrote it was a ...

Click Here to find out who said this, as well as discovering other famous literary quotes!

Book
Trivia
  • Book Trivia

    Can you name the title?

    Test your book knowledge with our daily trivia challenge!

Wordplay

Solve this clue:

Q S, S

and be entered to win..

Your guide toexceptional          books

BookBrowse seeks out and recommends the best in contemporary fiction and nonfiction—books that not only engage and entertain but also deepen our understanding of ourselves and the world around us.